He says we clicked instantly unlike with his ex it took a few years for them to click. A well rounded response to the poster and an interesting male perspective. But today it came to a head. It is really hard not to take something like this personally, especially when Ive asked him to be better about communication. Jess O . Hard work days aside, this might be a signal that they're feeling emotionally overwhelmed. I know he loves me dearly as well. A quick text can be a great way to show your partner you care and offer them some emotional support and it doesnt require a paragraph-long text. I rather him to quickly give me an answer then moping and being sad! Through this article, now I realise I shouldnt have done that. They make decisions for you. After all of this has taken place, I find that hed become very distant (rightfully so) so I tried not to bother him too much. The pull back is so strong and I am starting to take it personal, this is someone who texted and called me 24/7, telling me how much he loves me and wants to marry me, to now almost nothing. On another note, Eric, there needs to be more articles that tell men how to treat women, what THEY can do to help the relationship, etc. then his uncle died and he became a little less attentive to me, workload increased, people were pestering him. Is our love stronger than their friendship? He came down this past wknd to meet my family and my girls. (April 2016) Thankfully he wasnt asked to put up money for this one. Lisa Concepcion, founder of LoveQuest Coaching, tells Bustle. What do you think? When i told him that he can do that it makes him happy. He was sick with the flu and would sometimes message me just before midnight to say hello and that he had just gotten off work. He says he loves me everyday, however normally he calls me an affection name and hunny or sweetheart, but the other day he told me that those types of things are redundant in an adult relationship. #ServiceWithASmooch. They might appreciate your liking and loving them, but it wont change the page theyre on. "Needing to 'clear the head' is a desire to connect with themselves for deeper answers," Concepcion says.