Patricia Altschul of Southern Charm fame still isn't married after almost three years of engagement, and fans are wondering why. Like, are you sitting down for this? "could have remarried several times, but being a good mother to Whitney always came first, my career came second, and having fun came third. Get a VIP pass to never-before-seen content, exclusive sweepstakes, and much more! Southern Charm: What Happened To Patricia Altschul After Season 7 Patricia Altschul 's beloved butler Michael Kelcourse is in the hospital after suffering a stroke. She was asked about her previous ceremonies in a Town & Country Magazine interview and she was surprisingly anti-big weddings. The photo doesnt have a clear view of her ring finger, but she looks relaxed and happy. He aint a spring chicken!. C. on the new season of Southern Charm. Patricia Altschul Is Adding Some - E! Online According to Bravo, the wealthy philanthropist has been married three times, including her first marriage to L. Hayes Smith, who happens to be Southern Charm executive producer Whitney Sudler-Smiths father. Moms mystery gentleman is an established person who works in finance, says Sudler-Smith. Check out throwback photos of Patricia, below. Related: Southern Charm: Why Shep Rose Didn't Let Cameran Sell His House. Isn't the saying - the ring should cost at least two months worth of salary? Patricia Alschul, who was already the wealthiest star at the beginning of the year, has doubled her total over the months. She is also a reality television star who is famous for her role inSouthern Charm. Patricia Altschul has a separate residence for the butler Michael Kelcourse whom she considers her family member. While Patricia was married to Altschul, the couple were inveterate party-goers. The surest way to ruin an evening vignette, she says, is to carry a cumbersome handbag. When Sudler-Smith announced plans during the show's first season to open a restaurant in Charleston, his mother told him, "I think that's a little out of your realm."