Always be positive about your mate to everyone, speak life to all of your situations and pray for his weaknesses. Keep Mum (But Vent Later) If your spouse is really close to his or her family, and you just can't stand them, you might want to seriously consider keeping the bulk of your opinion to yourself, for the sake of your relationship. 3. The real problem is we both did not have a chance to spend time together and understand each other and all this problems had down poured on us. Different families have different ways to show love, affection, approval, etc. Both of his parents talk to their son, if sometimes they find something wrong my behavior toward them. As much as we would love to be able to ignore in-laws who hate you, their opinion actually means something to your partner. One famous line from this poem is that "Good fences make good neighbors." Most of us realize that healthy boundaries in relationships are often necessary-there's a reason that sage Benjamin Franklin said that "Guests, life fish, begin to smell after 3 d If both of these conditions existed, they have a better opportunity for a successful marriage. (SINGAPORE) Hey Huiying, I can understand how you feel especially when your husband is not trying to speak out. Like wars, forest fires and bad marriages, really stupid laws are much easier to begin than they are to end. Government alone will never be able to do it. None, perhaps, is as highly charged as holiday time, but you probably know that already. I always asked myself, what has happened to my life? Sometimes the husband is the frustrated one; its common for mother and son to have long or frequent conversations that leave the wife feeling ignored. However, I cant help feeling so angry when they call or want him to visit because although he has stood up for me, they refuse to apologize and want a relationship with only him not me? Perhaps, Im just selfish, but its beginning to feel like were not going to be the owner of the flat, decision-makers of what we want to do. "What does Sackett think about those new, stricter laws in Georgia? Literally everything Facebook sent my way, I liked---even if I hated it.