Do you want a man who doesnt want to be in a childs life because it means being with you? Wrap it up or dont have sex, thats the only choice YOU have.. He does have the right to change his mind about how involved hed like to be. Oh, and of course, hes also called a dick, and ass, and other choice names. ! And then of course Ross WE WERE ON A BREAK meltdown. Why would you want a future with someone that could do something like that? Any woman who cant see the pleasure in such a sacrifice is too selfish to be in a relationship. Nope. They look at it as their child, no matter who the mother is. If this woman wants to have the child, then she can have it: why is it up to you or your boyfriend to tell her she cant? April 10, 2012, 5:55 pm, Heterophobe, hmmm, thats new one. I love him so I'm willing to accept the baby. LADIES he could stand her. April 9, 2012, 4:44 pm. Is he supposed to just bend over and let her decide how his life is going to go, until the day he dies, just because they had sex once? However, since the pregnant ex of the LWs ex seems to want the child and seems to know the guys take on it, it is apparently her decision to bring a child into that reality. Given that youve never met him, how is it that you can be so sure of that? April 11, 2012, 2:00 am, John Rohan
Thats a dudes view. A condoms like 50 cents. so we have a 8mth baby. Friends of mine who were raised largely by their mothers but had to deal with their irresponsible, alcoholic fathers who dropped in and out of their lives whenever it pleased them did far more emotional damage to their children than my lack of having a father did to me. You bet. April 10, 2012, 6:11 pm. But, yet, again you let him back and hoped things would change and he would be with you. Id confirm that hes actually the father. April 9, 2012, 1:13 pm. So he and the LW should break up for good. reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): A
And the fact is, biology dictates that women have control once a pregnancy has occurred- not just the legal system.