Your not worth the financial convienience This article is very true in alot of ways yes it honestly made me learn alot about myself as an actual woman with BPD.but i also think its very misleading too!! In fact, most of the common derogatory responses we hear these days towards nice-guy types are a result of people being unable to override their instinctual feelings of disgust towards men who dont conform to the masculine ideal. As I began to develop an adult body, boys increasingly sought out my company. BPD is largely characterized by unstable interpersonal relationships, which we see play out in Alice's life. There are reasons why I stayed which I will not mention to keep this private. I never knew something like bpd ever existed til i searched jealous/angry wife on google. The film is known for themes of teenage angst and self-destruction, and was loosely based on Reeds life from ages 12 to 13. Your fault I didnt orgasm Thank you Rose for this podcast and Jay too! My HPD wife insist on divorcing. Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD How To Let Go of the Good Times, Marriage Entitlement When Your Spouse Takes Too Much Or Gives Too Little, Defense Mechanisms Triggered By Humiliation, Disarming Defense Mechanisms Triggered By Shame, Defense Mechanisms Part 2: How To Stop Defensive Behavior, Defense Mechanisms: When We Hurt Those We Care About, Women With Traits of BPD Why Cant She Say Im Sorry, Women With Traits of BPD Regaining Her Trust, Reversing Female Anger In Relationships Techniques For Men. After a temper outburst from me, which came from immense pressure, and while deeply unfortunate, no one was hurt or even touched, the process of discarding but then some clarity three months into it and she starts counselling this doesnt last to long. This increased her sense of self-loathing, particularly when others eventually had enough sex and left her alone. I been with her for 16 months and same accusations, lieing , no empathy , no compassion for others and only nice when is on the take ,slowly losing friends and family due to issues . Its nearly 5 months since she left, and I am still in crisis and fearful for my kids futures. There are red flags to look for but please dont believe that we are all crazy psycho stalkers or abusive selfish destructive monsters. Is this really them just being an asshole to you? As parents we acknowledge we made decisions & choices for her with her well being in mind, however we know we made mistakes and could have done some things differently. Its a no win in so many ways. His emotions constantly push him toward rash decisions based on virtually zero logic. Our first relationship ended in large part due to her believing I didnt want to marry her because there was a time where she thought I was going to propose but didnt (didnt know at the time).